Showing posts with label Memorial Day. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Memorial Day. Show all posts

Sunday, May 24, 2026

Memorial Day

 

Honoring Those Who Gave The Ultimate Sacrifice


Monday, May 29, 2023

Memorial Day



















We celebrate Memorial Day to honor the soldiers, sailors, airmen, airwomen, and Marines who did not return home. The holiday dates back to the months immediately following the Civil War when a few towns and cities began honoring their dead.

Friday, May 26, 2023

Sunday, May 29, 2022

Memorial Day Remembrance









Sacrifice is the theme of Memorial Day. The sacrifice of individuals. The sacrifice of families. The sacrifice of communities. The sacrifice of a nation. Memorial Day is a time when America’s war heroes reminds us of the price for freedom. John Quincy Adams once said, “You will never know how much it has cost my generation to preserve your freedom. I hope you make good use of it.”

Memorial Day was originally called Decoration Day. It is a day of remembrance for those who have died in service of the United States of America. It is often said to be the ultimate sacrifice. Waterloo N.Y. was officially declared the birthplace of Memorial Day by President Lyndon Johnson in May 1966. Although,  it’s difficult to prove conclusively the origins of this day.

Memorial Day was borne out of the Civil War and a desire to honor the dead. It was officially proclaimed on 5 May 1868 by General John Logan, national commander of the Grand Army of the Republic, in his General Order No. 11. “The 30th of May, 1868, is designated for the purpose of strewing with flowers, or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now lie in almost every city, village and hamlet churchyard in the land,” he proclaimed. The date of Decoration Day, as he called it, was chosen because it wasn’t the anniversary of any particular battle.

On the first Decoration Day, General James Garfield made a speech at Arlington National Cemetery, and 5,000 participants decorated the graves of the 20,000 Union and Confederate soldiers buried there.

The first state to officially recognize the holiday was New York in 1873. By 1890 it was recognized by all of the northern states. The South refused to acknowledge the day, honoring their dead on separate days until after World War I (when the holiday changed from honoring just those who died fighting in the Civil War to honoring Americans who died fighting in any war).

Memorial Day is now observed in almost every state on the last Monday in May with Congressional passage of the National Holiday Act of 1971 (P.L. 90 – 363). Sadly, while there were many parades to honor our past heroes, few homes and businesses displayed the American Flag. Let’s hope patriotism is still alive and flourishing in our great country and take pause during the barbecues, beach-going, shopping and relaxation to remember those who have fallen for us so that we can have so much. May God bless them.

Sunday, May 30, 2021

Memorial Day – If They Could Speak ...





By Arthur H. Gunther III

ahgunther@hotmail.com

No Memorial Day, USA or elsewhere, is without heartfelt words and tribute, parades, wreaths, re-mourning. What is missing are the voices of the fallen. Would that we could hear them. What would they say?
“Mom, I was as scared as you, but I could not show that with you there. So I never really said ‘goodbye’. ...”
“Dad, you told me about your ‘war stories,’ and I figured we’d swap them when I came back. ...”
“Mary (any sweetheart’s name), I was crying inside when you were showing tears, and we both felt that we had been pulled from our door to the future so that I could enter another, for a time. ...”
“Mr. Gram (any teacher’s name), I know you expected me to be the same distracted fellow day-dreaming in the back row, but I was really awake that final day, and I remembered you telling me to pay attention. It helped my pals in the squad, the ones who survived. ...”
“Mayor Jones (any public official), there are speeches every Memorial Day, and parades and gun salutes and tears and then the barbecues, fireworks, leisure. Understand that all this is fine with me. I’d be there, too, if I could. But also believe that the man who fell next to me, the ‘enemy,’ isn’t one for me any longer, and he has mourners, too. ...”
“I read the ‘Red Badge of Courage’ in Miss Rouy’s literature course and could not understand then the fine line between courage, the chance of it, the millisecond for choice, and the instant when cowardice could win. I thought it was black and white but now understand it is not really so, that military training and society’s expectation may of necessity set it up as clear choice, but in the moment of decision, there is fear, opportunity and the possibility of both heroism and cowardice. There is much more humanity to it. ..."
"It is for humanity that I am ‘gone,’ the hope of it anyway. I am not truly ‘gone,’ of course, since I have not died in vain. The sacrifices of any of us, dead or living, are for betterment, for that continual ‘thirst’ for the world’s possibilities. Otherwise, why did you all lose me? ...”
The writer is a retired newspaperman.
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Monday, May 25, 2020

Memorial Day: Remembering Those Lost


















Memorial Day, a U.S. federal holiday, is observed on the last Monday of May to honor the men and women who have died while serving in the military. God bless them all and may they rest in peace.

Thursday, November 28, 2019

Happy Thanksgiving

This is the time of year when we all give thanks “out loud”. Other times, we may just think it and not say anything at all, but still feel it toward our family and friends. Thanksgiving gives us a reason to be vociferous about it.

During the Thanksgiving holiday, some of these same family and friends are critical of businesses who remain open either on Thanksgiving Day or the day after, feeling sorry for the workers. Many of those friends and family who are complaining voted in this last election. Some exhibited a certain glee when their candidates won.

Were they re-elected or newly elected? If re-elected, they are the ones for the most part that have slowly been increasing taxes, fees, penalties, fines, insurance requirements, maternity and paternity rights and other regulations on businesses to mention a few, that all cost these same businesses a lot of money whether they remain open or closed. In effect, these policies are forcing them to remain open so they can pay all of the above (and others surely missed) because all a store can do to make money is to be open and hope shoppers come in and spend their money. Besides, on non-holiday days, these same “victims” are making $15/hour because of newly passed laws by politicians who should not try to force businesses to do or not do something such as regulate pay. The employees are probably now being paid time and a half or double-time by law for working holidays.

If a store like Walmart remains open, they are branded as the big, bad, greedy conglomerate beating up their employees. Or are they? Most get a holiday rate of pay to work on a holiday as well as benefits for even part-time employees. Granted, not all do, but again, politicians have passed laws requiring them to pay out the wazoo. And what of the person who works there simply because they need the money? It has to be a two way street requiring a little give and take. Having spoken to Walmart employees in Cortland, Oneonta and other locations and asked if working there was as terrible as the media likes to project, the answer has always been, "No."

While these same family and friends like to knock Walmart or any other big store for being open, I wonder if they have worked in a retail store environment to see what it is like? Probably not. But that's okay, you're still entitled to your opinion and can protest by not going shopping at Walmart on Thanksgiving Day or Black Friday or any other day.

Just remember, there are a lot of other people working on Thanksgiving Day, Black Friday and other holidays besides the Walmart staff. And, like the retail staff such as those at a Walmart or Macy's or Home Depot, they rely on their jobs by having shoppers come and spend their money there. How is it that these same people and politicians have no issue when retailers are open on Labor Day, Memorial Day or any other holiday?

In that respect, there are other workers beyond the obvious retail stores working on the holidays too. People like correction officers, dispatchers, firefighters - including volunteers, police officers, emergency medical personnel, hospital workers, military and more. Should they get the day off also? Our guess is most if not all would say, “No.” Hypocritical? You decide.

So while the headlines might grab your attention by bashing Walmart, and others, because it's easy, remember that their employees are our friends and neighbors and you may be affecting their livelihoods with your protest. Then, when Walmart closes shop such as recently happened in White Plains because it cost too much to be there with theft, parking and traffic, lack of profits, taxes, regulations, etc., it's a little too late to lament when and why they pulled out of the neighborhood. People complained when they were moving in and then they complained when they announced they were leaving. You can't have it both ways. So, instead of getting on your “high horse” and condemning retailers for staying open, realize that many are just trying to stay in business and this time of year can be a make-or-break time for them. Support your local retailers, big and small and instead of demanding they close for the day. Let them run their business. Don't like that? Then don't shop there on that day. They'll get your message.

We need to support our businesses as much as we ask them to support us through donations we ask of them. Just like our businesses are approached almost daily to support our Boy Scouts and Girl Scouts, our Little Leagues, School Sports leagues, the Drama Club, the Chess Club, the fire department, police department and so on. The list of groups and organizations seeking donations from local businesses large and small can be staggering. And if they say, “No!” what then? Do you stop patronizing them? We hope not. We hope that you understand the bind they are in. Again, we need to support them as much as they do us. It's the only way to get A Better Greenburgh.

Sunday, May 29, 2016

Memorial Day Remberence

On this Memorial Day weekend, we remember those who sacrificed their lives for “life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.” Our thoughts and prayers are with all those who are grieving. May we, as Abraham Lincoln famously said, “highly resolve that these dead shall not have died in vain–that this nation, under God, shall have a new birth of freedom–and that government of the people, by the people, for the people, shall not perish from the earth.”

Please watch this tribute: Just A Common Soldier

Monday, May 25, 2015

The Ultimate Sacrifice


Sacrifice is the theme of Memorial Day. The sacrifice of individuals. The sacrifice of families. The sacrifice of communities. The sacrifice of a nation. Memorial Day is a time when America’s war heroes reminds us of the price for freedom. John Quincy Adams once said, “You will never know how much it has cost my generation to preserve your freedom. I hope you make good use of it.”

Memorial Day was originally called Decoration Day. It is a day of remembrance for those who have died in service of the United States of America. It is often said to be the ultimate sacrifice. Waterloo N.Y. was officially declared the birthplace of Memorial Day by President Lyndon Johnson in May 1966. Although,  it’s difficult to prove conclusively the origins of this day.

Memorial Day was borne out of the Civil War and a desire to honor the dead. It was officially proclaimed on 5 May 1868 by General John Logan, national commander of the Grand Army of the Republic, in his General Order No. 11. “The 30th of May, 1868, is designated for the purpose of strewing with flowers, or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now lie in almost every city, village and hamlet churchyard in the land,” he proclaimed. The date of Decoration Day, as he called it, was chosen because it wasn’t the anniversary of any particular battle.

On the first Decoration Day, General James Garfield made a speech at Arlington National Cemetery, and 5,000 participants decorated the graves of the 20,000 Union and Confederate soldiers buried there.

The first state to officially recognize the holiday was New York in 1873. By 1890 it was recognized by all of the northern states. The South refused to acknowledge the day, honoring their dead on separate days until after World War I (when the holiday changed from honoring just those who died fighting in the Civil War to honoring Americans who died fighting in any war).

Memorial Day is now observed in almost every state on the last Monday in May with Congressional passage of the National Holiday Act of 1971 (P.L. 90 – 363). Sadly, while there were many parades to honor our past heroes, few homes and businesses displayed the American Flag. Let’s hope patriotism is still alive and flourishing in our great country and take pause during the barbecues, beach-going, shopping and relaxation to remember those who have fallen for us so that we can have so much. May God bless them.

Sunday, May 25, 2014

Celebrating Our Service Members This Memorial Day

Each year we pause all too briefly to honor our brave service personnel throughout our country and overseas. Politicians give speeches extolling the virtues of those and their families who have served, continue to serve or have given the ultimate sacrifice for us all. After the parades, the speeches, and the barbecues begin to wind down, we will all return to our daily lives.

You may find one or more of these charities listed below appealing to you and worthy of your participation. Not sure what you can do? We've highlighted two worthy charities below. Regardless of your choice, you can make a difference either financially or in person.

Please click on a link and follow your heart with your wallet. If you lack funds to donate, many will welcome your time and energy if you can. We have the ability to do so much for so many right here in our own backyard as we celebrate this and every Memorial Day. God bless our troops, their families and America.

Two charities that help our veterans:







Soldier Socks
1127 High Ridge Road, 124 Stamford, Connecticut 06905; Tel - 203-832-2005





Fisher House
Fisher House Foundation, Inc., 111 Rockville Pike, Suite 420, Rockville, Maryland 20850; (888) 294-8560 or (301) 294-8560; Fax: (301) 294-8562
info@fisherhouse.org
Fisher House Foundation is best known for a network of comfort homes where military and veterans’ families can stay at no cost while a loved one is receiving treatment.


During our research for a list of charities that help our military personnel, we found this page with an incredibly long list of charities for the military:

If the links below do not work, please go directly to the link above and link to the charity of your choice from there.

Wounded Warrior & Family Support Resources

Gary Sinise Foundation This foundation is designed to honor the nation's defenders, veterans, first responders, their families and those in need by creating and supporting unique programs designed to entertain, educate, inspire, strengthen, and build communities.

The Giving Effect The Giving Effect is a national movement getting food, gently-used items & more to people in need. From people like you!

Homes for Our Troops
Homes for Our Troops assists severely injured service men and women and their immediate families by raising donations of money, building materials and professional labor and coordinating the process of building new adapting existing homes with handicapped accessibility.

Intrepid Fallen Heroes Fund
The Intrepid Fallen Heroes Fund aids severely injured military personnel in their treatment and recovery at Brooke Army Medical Center in San Antonio, Texas.

Fisher House
The Fisher House Foundation provides affordable lodging for family members of hospitalized military personnel.

National Center on Family Homlessness The National Center on Family Homelessness develops and implements innovative solutions that address the unique needs of homeless children and families. Our extensive knowledge of the causes, correlates, and consequences of homelessness allows us to support families in their return to stable housing in the community.

Operation Comfort
Operation Comfort provides support to Service members who have been wounded in Afghanistan or Iraq and are receiving treatment at Brooke Army Medical Center.

Operation Hero Miles
Operation Hero Miles takes donations of unused frequent flier miles to help soldiers travel on emergency leave. They can also be used to help families fly to hospitalized soldiers.

Operation Gratitude Operation Gratitude seeks to lift morale and put smiles on faces by sending care packages addressed to individual Soldiers, Sailors, Airmen and Marines deployed in harm's way.** Operation Gratitude care packages contain food, hygiene products, entertainment items and personal letters of appreciation, all wrapped with good wishes of love and support.

Operation Paperback Operation Paperback is a non-profit organization incorporated in the State of Pennsylvania that collects gently used books nationwide and sends them to American troops deployed overseas. Since 1999, we have shipped over 1.3 million books to locations around the globe.

Pets for Patriots We create unique opportunities for members of the military community to save a life by honorably adopting homeless adult dogs and cats.

Project Prayer Flag Project Prayer Flag is recognized by the Department of Defense as a member of the "America Supports You" program, which showcases efforts to support American troops and their families. Since 2002 the organization has distributed flags, care packages, baseball equipment, family and financial support, military phone cards and Unit support to soldiers in Iraq, Afghanistan and various international deployment areas.

Project Valor-IT
Project Valor-IT provides voice-controlled software and laptop computers to wounded Service members recovering from hand and arm injuries or amputations at major military medical centers. Visit the website to learn how to make a donation or request a laptop.

Quilts of Valor
The Quilts of Valor project provides homemade quilts to wounded Service members.

Tempered Steel, Inc. Tempered Steel sends Wounded Warriors to speak to schools, community groups and corporate events about their very personal stories behind their scars of war. Our members are all Iraq and Afghanistan veterans of all military branches; Army, Navy, Marines and Air Force who have been wounded during the last 10 years physically and/or psychologically.

Wounded Warriors Family Support Fund
Provides support and solace to the families of injured or fallen troops through vacations.

Aid for Wounded Soldiers
Aid for Wounded Soldiers is a non-profit project that provides comfort and relief items for soldiers, sailors, airmen and marines sick, injured or wounded from service in Iraq and Afghanistan. Specific items requested by Military Medical Centers, VA Medical Centers and Fisher House rehabilitation facilities are purchased and donated each week.

Send Care Packages Resources

Emergency Assistance Resources

American Soldier Foundation
The Foundation can provide grants or interest free loans to help Soldiers and family members with unexpected events.

Armed Forces Foundation Family Assistance Program
The Family Assistance Program awards financial assistance to military families ranging from hotel room cost and utility bill payment, to laptops for recovering veterans. Families must apply for assistance through the website and are accepted based on their need in relationship to monthly income.

Army Emergency Relief
Army Emergency Relief provides emergency financial assistance to Soldiers and their families.

Army Homefront Fund Provides emergency financial and other support to the families of soldiers, with a focus on wounded warrior care and transition assistance. Includes cash grants, not loans, paid directly to mortgage lenders, auto mechanics, utility companies, doctors and other providers. Assistance is usually provided within 24-72 hours after receiving pertinent information from the warrior or family member.

American Red Cross Armed Forces Emergency Services
The American Red Cross sends communications on behalf of family members who are facing emergencies or other important events to members of the U.S. Armed Forces serving all over the world. It also offers financial assistance to military families and veterans.

Operation Eagle’s Nest
Donations to this charity support the families of Soldiers stationed at Fort Campbell, Kentucky.

Operation Homefront
Operation Homefront can provide financial assistance to military families in need as well as help with emeregncy household and vehicle repairs.

Reserve Aid
Reserve Aid is a 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization committed to providing financial support to the families of Reserve Service Members called to active duty in all five branches of the Armed Forces. Reserve Aid makes unrestricted, need based grants to military families who have a Reserve Service Member on full-time deployment to a combat zone or homeland security position.

Support America’s Armed Forces (SAAF)
SAAF raises funds, collects care package items and issues grants to veteran organizations, active duty or reserve personnel, or families in need of assistance.

Unmet Needs (Veterans of Foreign Wars)
The Unmet Needs Program provides emergency financial assistance and has a network of skilled volunteers able to assist military families.

USA Cares
USA Cares exists to provide military families with financial support and other critical resources in their time of need.

Donate Item or Resources Services

Air Compassion for Veterans ACV ensures that no financially-stressed wounded warrior / veteran / active duty military person or their family member(s) is denied access to distant specialized medical evaluation, diagnosis, treatment, or rehabilitation for lack of a means of long-distance medical air transportation. ACV provides air transportation to Wounded Warriors.

AMVETS Task Force DVD
The American Veterans collect new and used DVDs to distribute overseas to US military personnel.

Cell Phones for Soldiers
This charity accepts donations of old cell phones, which it then recycles for cash to buy phone cards for deployed troops.

Commissary Gift Certificates
Gift certificates purchased though the Defense Commissary Agency can be used by military families.

Freedom Calls
Donations to the Freedom Calls Foundation help build and maintain a state-of-the-art telecommunications network for military personnel to keep in touch with family members back home.

Green Care for Troops
A nationwide outreach program connecting local lawn and landscaping companies with the families of deployed Service members to help with lawn and landscape care.

Help Our Troops Call Home
Purchase prepaid calling cards through military exchanges for troops serving overseas in Operation Enduring Freedom and Operation Iraqi Freedom.

Homefront America, Inc.
Homefront America is a volunteer, non-profit website that assists military families during deployment. Their programs include referral assistance, tuition and scholarship assistance, holiday programs, back-to-school supplies, teen education and routine auto maintenance.

Operation Homelink
Operation Homelink provides refurbished computers to the spouses or parents of junior enlisted (E1-E5) U.S. deployed Service members, enabling email communication with their loved ones deployed overseas.
Operation Top Knot
A program that supports the wives and children of U.S. soldiers through donations of baby gifts.

Operation Uplink
Run by the Veterans of Foreign Wars, Operation Uplink accepts contributions in order to supply phone cards to troops and their families.

Snow Care For Troops Snow Care for Troops is a nationwide outreach program that recruits local volunteers to provide free snow removal services at home for the men and women serving overseas

USA Together
Is a non-profit website that provides assistance through donors to injured Soldiers, Veterans and their families.

Help Soldiers Help Others Resources

Operation Iraqi Children
Many soldiers deployed to Iraq are rebuilding schools. Donations to Operation Iraqi Children help purchase desperately needed school supplies.

Operation Give
Operation Give provides toys, clothing and school supplies primarily to the children of Iraq and Afghanistan.

Spirit of America
Spirit of America helps US troops carry out humanitarian projects around the world through donations of much needed goods and supplies.